As newlyweds we are learning the different ways to serve each other. In this article I have 4 different ways that I’ve served my husband (non sexually) and I’ve gotten amazing progress in our relationship. Most of the time it makes him want to do more for me because of my thoughtfulness for him. 🙂
1) Be Graceful
When he gets home from work ask him how was his day and smile. Greet him with grace and positive energy. One thing I’ve learned is a man doesn’t want to be burdened with complaints and problems when he has had a long day of work.
2) Plan a fun day for him
Plan a day for him on the weekend of things he likes to do. For example, my husband is a nerd (which I love). One day I surprised him with going to the Museaum of Science and Industry. He is an engineer so he loves robotics and techy things. I also went on a “free day” so we only had to pay for parking. Then, afterwards we sat by Lake Michigan and ate lunchables. He loved it because it was thoughful.
3) Get involved in his interests
Now a lot of women probably get annoyed by this, but if your man plays video games play a game with him one day. Or if he likes sports, watch a game and try to get really involved and understand whats going on. My husband personally loves video games so I try to play with him sometimes and it makes him even more attracted to me, so its a win win!
4) Apologize first
This is very, I repeat VERY hard to do. Most woman want to be right all the time (let’s be honest we definately are), but sometimes it is OKAY to say sorry first in an argument. Most likely what you two are fighting about is small and it doesn’t even matter anyway. Marriage teaches you to be humble, so sometimes, EVEN IF HE IS WRONG just say sorry and end the arguement. I’m not saying all the time and definately not if its something serious, but just to serve him out of love let him win the argument and move on.
Well these are my tips based off of my experience. It’s all about love yall! Try it and let me know how it goes. 😉